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Now, what to do with this blog title? What does it mean to be a candle, never mind a good one? How can I answer something like that? Well, of course, I just have to let one of my trusty decks do that for me! And this week's deck, the Watcher Angel Tarot, with its mythos of angels who bring new ideas and knowledge and share them with humans a la Prometheus, seems a very appropriate deck for the job :)
I decided to devise a spread to look at this candle business and came up with the following:
What I see here are three things. Firstly, following the image itself as well as more traditional Nine of Pentacles interpretations, I am fueled by everything I have learned and worked on over the years that has led me to being a strong and independent woman. Secondly, the things I gather around me (all my decks, for example) act as supports, strengthening me.
Thirdly, following the keyword on this particular card, I am strengthened by everything I have inherited that has allowed me to become a strong and independent woman. What first comes to mind is my mother, who brought me up on tales of having started to date my dad after challenging him to an arm-wrestling competition - she was never shy and had faith in her own strength, both mental and physical. She is also a caring, nurturing person, a healer and a witch (though she doesn't generally describe herself as such). She taught me to read coffee grounds and use a pendulum, despite being a university lecturer. So, I inherited a blend of academic learning and esoteric enthusiasm, strength and self-confidence. Thanks mum!
What inspires me are all the possibilities that life holds. Okay, so maybe not all of them can ever become reality. Still, being able to see more than one way, more than one emotional perspective, more than one type of beauty, is itself a gift.
In my head I hear Alanis Morissette sing "Precious Illusions". It reminds me that illusions can be a gift, so long as I don't fall victim to believing absolutely in the make-believe. Instead, as suggested by this card's position in the spread, I can allow them to inspire me.
I could criticise myself for building castles in the sky, or for focusing on the impossibility of the things I imagine. Perhaps, though, I can acknowledge that those illusions give me a glimpse of what might be, inspiring me to try, even if I sometimes fail.
Okay, so this is quite a challenging card. If I go with traditional interpretations, I can best serve by my willingness to shoulder burdens, to take on challenges. Looking at this image, though, my more intuitive interpretation is that I can best serve others through my own healing despite the weight of burdens. By letting others see my weakness and vulnerability and the fact that, as suggested by the Nine of Pentacles, I still persevere and prosper.
Hmm... perhaps they aren't opposites after all: I can shine my light by continuing to shoulder responsibilities, while still being able to acknowledge my vulnerability and pain, rather than trying to hide them away. This is quite a tough one: it's so much easier to say, "I'm fine." than admit to being weak sometimes.
Still, the first card was also a reminder that my strength comes from those around me, as well as myself. Perhaps leaning on others from time to time is appropriate. And it reminds me, too, that the idea that we are invulnerable and independent is also an illusion. I might be inspired by the goal of independence, but that doesn't mean I have to live up to it all the time. As a candle, or a human soul, being real is far better than trying to be perfect.
I give thanks for this opportunity to think about what fuels my passion, ignites my creativity, and how best I can shine.
Now, as I end, please do click through to Claire-Marie at Beauty, History Magic, and see what other takes there are on this subject :)
*By the way, if you like the card images, check out this link for a video review of the entire deck.